divisive questions

there are these answers to certain questions that make us so different from everyone else

do you believe you should use reason and knowledge to solve problems or do you believe you should just trust fate and surrender to a higher being?

do you think that happiness is the ultimate goal of a good life or no?

do you think you should try to make a difference in the world?

do you think life is fragile and you could die any time and therefore you shouldnt get caught up in understanding it and never think of it is a long stay with long term goals or do you think you have an eternity to live and never think about death?

should you resist and control your passions or let yourself go?

is there order and reason in this world or is it random chaos?


How are we supposed to communicate and relate to people if we can differ on so many serious issues, or worse, how are you ever supposed to relate to anyone if you are constantly switching your answer to every one of these questions and living with thousands of uncertainties when everyone else seems to be so....so certain.

I know the answer to that is that you don't talk about it, you politely dont bring it up, you only talk about the things you have similar interest with or you just make yourself have similar interests by taking whatever stance makes it easy......I can't do that though, so....uncertain, alone i will remain.